"Justify Your Existence"
Was cycling home just now - love cycling. And saw a "Justify Your Existence" sticker on the back of a car. Assumption - the author of this sticker intended this to be read as "justify your existence to others". I think that's a fair assumption. So it's one of these motivational sayings designed to motivate one to "great heights".
I have two observations. Firstly if someone isn't going to respect me because I can't "justify my existence" to them - good stuff, I don't want their respect and if I don't have their respect they're less likely to be in my life. Even better. Secondly if I'm in a position where I need to "justify my existence" to someone in order to feel ok about myself - I have a problem. I'm too wrapped up in what other's want of me, I'm probably better off spending time deciding what I want for me.
There's too much trying to please others in this life I think - well at least in this society. Ricky Nelson had it right when he sang "you can't please everyone so you got to please yourself".


